There are some distinct differences in how you should go about flirting with Western women, versus Asian women. When it comes to American and European women, my usual style is to be a brash, playful "bad boy" -- I'll tease women and playfully criticize them, in order to let them know I'm not so impressed with them. You see, I ordinarily give girls the sense that they have to impress me.
This means you don't her questions directly (instead of giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); never asking HER the predictable questions ("so what's your name," "where are you from," etc), and using CREATIVE conversation instead; and at the same time, you want to tease women and mess with them a bit. Not in a callous, disrespectful way, but in a lighthearted way that implies something very essential to her: that you're not an ordinary guy who is hoping to impress her and "win" her.|One way to do this is to never answer a girl's questions directly. Instead, you always deflect her questions with jokes (i.e. "What do I do for a living? I'm a lion tamer.")
It also means you're not asking her the usual, predictable questions (such as "where are you from," etc.) You always want to use creative conversation tactics with Western girls, and this means turning the tables and playfully busting on them. This shows that you're absolutely not just like every other guy, who acts anxious and needy.
So the question is, should you try to approach dating Asian women the same way? Well, yes and no.
Asian women are different, and a lot of this has to do with their society and upbringing. Growing up, they watched a LOT of local "romantic serials" on television. (In the united states, we refer to these shows as "soap operas.") The plot of these shows invariably has to do with a handsome, sensitive guy who is madly in love with a girl, but there are challenges that he must overcome.
The usual story line involves a desperately attempting to "win" the girl, but she keeps turning him down -- but he keeps at it until he does something extraordinary to "touch her heart. In the end, she finally relents and they share a passionate kiss and embrace, and presumably live happily ever after (blah, blah).
This stuff may sound corny to you, but Asian women are raised to believe in it. And so, they expect men to "court" them.
Sure, there are less-traditional Asian women who are attracted to "bad boys." But most well-raised Asian women would rather die than bring any shame on their families, so they would never be seen in public with a guy who wears unkempt clothes and is covered with tattoos (no matter how "cool" other women might think he is).
This also means you cannot act like some wanna-be "pickup artist," using "lines" on her and immediately flirting with her in a sexual way.
The rules of sexual chemistry change a bit when you're dating Asian women for marriage.
I do recommend paying an Asian woman a compliment on her dress, or how nice she looks. I don't advise guys to do this with Western women, because it makes you predictable and unoriginal. But Asian women, because they are so feminine and take great pride in how they look, will be flattered if you pay them a sincere compliment on how nice they look today.
(Although she may act shy, and blush when you tell her, this just means that you've touched her emotionally.)
It's also really important for you to display masculine behavior (i.e. "be the man") when you are with Asian girls. One thing we all love about Asian women is their femininity. They are perfectly feminine creatures. (Unlike American women, who have been taught to try to "wear the pants" in a relationship, and will go out in public wearing a baseball cap and baggy clothes. You won't see Asian women dressing this way -- my Thai girlfriend used to spend an hour doing her hair and makeup just to go to the store! And they always look amazing...)
Now, as far as how to project the perfect masculine presence that Asian girls are powerfully attracted to, you can visit our Dating Asian Women site and learn these tips, plus much more, and within no time you can be attracting and dating the gorgeous Asian women of your dreams.